The work I do in the world is all about helping women to heal their relationship with themselves, breakup with their inner mean girl, dismantle their negative self-beliefs, turn their pain into power and their mess into magic, so that they can become their most aligned, empowered selves.

I am so deeply passionate about this work, and I want to share with you why…

I come from a long lineage of women who have experienced the worst type of trauma. The type of trauma that nightmares are made of. This generational trauma has bled all over my family, all over our relationships, into every crevice of our lives. There is not one of us who has not been affected in some way by the horrible, dark things that have happened to the women in my family.

For most of my life I carried the pain of this generational trauma on my shoulders. I was so angry, unbelievably defensive, and unable to regulate my emotions. I was so hurt, I believed that I was unlovable, I believed that I was unworthy, that I wasn’t good enough and the worst thing that I believed about myself was that I was a bad person and that at any minute everyone around me would figure it out too.

Holding on to all that negative emotion and disempowering beliefs dictated how I showed up in the world and, I showed up in the world as a woman who didn’t think very highly of herself.

I accepted so much less than what I deserved, I put myself in dangerous and scary situations, I let people use me, abuse me and then when I was old enough, I did everything in my power to numb every part of myself.

Over a decade ago, I decided ‘no more’.

I had just left an extremely toxic and emotionally abusive relationship which was the catalyst that threw me into my own healing and personal development journey.

I spent years going to events, reading the books, listening to podcasts, trying to medicate myself wondering why I still felt so stuck, why I was still struggling within myself.

I knew If I wanted a different result, it was going to require a different approach.

I was at a personal development event, and I met someone who shared with me about this type of therapy/coaching called ‘a Breakthrough’ as soon as the words left his lips and touched my ears every cell in my body said ‘YES’ and I instantly knew that this was the thing I was meant to do.

The universe works in powerful ways because before I knew it, I was then being introduced to a specialised Breakthrough Coach.

Now full transparency here, at the time of speaking to this specialised Breakthrough Coach I had no money because I was also stuck in a toxic relationship with money but that is another story for another day… I think from memory I had like $27 bucks to my name and when she told me the cost to do a breakthrough with her, I literally almost fell off my freakin chair.

Its was $5000; cash only, no payment plans, and I must pay her in full before we begin and with my $27 in my account I said “YES!”

But that I would need some time to create the money to do it, so we set a date that was 3 months away (mind you I had absolutely no idea how I was going to pay her) and I made the decision that I was going to find a way to do this for myself and that’s exactly what I did.

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